the north face overhead How To Make Your Spouse Love You Forever
Two of the most significant pieces of marriage advice that I know are also the most simple and yet they are far more effective in bringing lovers and couples together than anything else out there.
Despite the relationship problems and marriage problems that many people are faced with, couples can make their significant other love them forever.
Many people go into a love relationship thinking that they need to do something spectacular or give their loved one expensive gifts to make their love relationship blossom.
But did you know that the smallest and simplest acts make all the difference?
In all love relationships, there are a number of small things you can do that will make your companion love you eternally.
My recommendation is to “keep it simple, stupid.”
Marriage Advice number one: Greeting your companion at the door when he or she arrives home.
Several years ago, a woman who was married to a very wealthy man in the US found herself in a most disheartening position that would cause most married women to turn bitter and angry.
One day her multi millionaire spouse asked her, “What do you do all day, anyway?”
This simple question was the beginning of the end for their marriage. Within weeks, her husband filed for divorce.
To prevent the woman from benefiting financially from the divorce, her rich husband’s lawyers descended upon her like wild animals during the litigation and she dared not mount a challenge perhaps that was the way the heavens planned it so that she would be led to the arms of the right man who would cherish her and make her happy.
Suffice to say that after the divorce and lawyer’s fee, the woman ended up with six thousand five hundred dollars and her car.
For three months, she slept in the back seat of her car. Imagine that. You may ask how something like this could have happened.
The answer will surprise you. Statistics show that the more powerful a man is a man’s power is his money the more likely he is to employ a skilled barrister.
Hence, he is able to retain most of his wealth after the divorce, according to one study conducted in North America by a researcher from the UK.
Continuing on with the story, one day the woman met a gentleman.
He was slightly heavyset and balding. After she got to know him, she liked his personality and of course, he was taken by her beauty. They started a romantic relationship which resulted in marriage.
Each evening her new man arrived home before her. When she arrived home from work, her man would always greet her at the door.
There would be dinner waiting for both of them. Some nights he would rub her feet while they sat on the couch watching TV.
When you are watching a show with your significant other, do you become so absorbed in the show that you ask your significant other to be quiet? That behaviour could damage the relationship.
In the lady’s own words, “This is the best thing that has ever happened to me.” She compared her new husband to her ex husband, who was one of the richest men in the US at that time.
What did her new man do to command her love? He did the simple things that mean a lot.
If I may explain it this way: You are home. You hear your significant other’s car pull into the driveway. Next you hear keys being inserted into the front door lock. You do nothing but go on with what you are doing: in this case, let’s say watching television.
Your companion comes into the house. You turn to greet him or her.
Your companion sees you watching a show and snacking. Can you see how you may come across as though a show on TV is far more important to you than the person whom you are to love with all your heart?
Marriage Advice number two: Way back in 1992 while I was in Asia, I knew an American couple.
They had been married for forty five years. I still recall those two as if I met them yesterday.
The wife told me something that her husband did. As she began to share the experience, her face lit up. I knew then whatever it was that her husband did must have left her with a lasting positive impression.